“We need to feel seen and affirmed—it creates a sense of security,” Gayle said, as I sat across from her trying to figure out how to help my brain to stop kicking off stress hormones. With the sudden passing of my beloved father-in-law, my wife, who has been a solid...
“Be nice,” Louisa said, defending her husband. “Nice? That was nice,” I shot back, joking, of course. Be nice,” she repeated, furrowing her brows, letting me know that she wasn’t messing around. “Wait, you’re being serious?” I asked. “Yes, you need to be nice.” ...
Have you ever seen a sign or heard a message similar to this? If you have, know that what the note really means is that your employer is afraid. Here are a few of the things they’re afraid of: — Losing employees, which they need to do the work, for better pay —...
Do you have a team member coming to you frustrated about their salary, or some other aspect of their work that you can’t do anything about? The frustration makes sense, but your hands are tied, at least for the immediate. What do you do? Let’s begin with what not to...
Sometimes life puts us in undesirable situations that can challenge us to the core, leaving us on the verge of kicking someone in the shins. Or, at the very least, shredding them with verbal kung fu. No matter how emotionally advanced we may be, there are situations...
We loved Olivia from the moment we met her. While she spoke very little English (still, way better than our Spanish), her work communicated for itself. It’s not an exaggeration when I say that it felt like they (Olivia and her cleaning crew) had hugged our home. In...
