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No Expectations, Just Acceptance (Yeah, right!)
If I can just get it right, then I can relax, or so we tell ourselves. Of course, that is a lie. No matter how right you get it, there will always be something that could make it better. We recently planned a trip to New York, to see the magnificent colors of the...
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Avoid Self-Sabotage by Treating Perfectionism
Are you A Perfectionist? Do you Have a Plan for Treating Your Perfectionism? Ever found yourself wanting an opportunity, but stalling on submitting your name? Why is that? The simple answer is negative self-talk. Negative self-talk leads to self-sabotage, and can...
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The Power of Praise: The Reason To Thank Your Team This Holiday Season
Get Your Team To Perform Better, Through Praise Who doesn’t stand a little taller, or perform better, when someone praises their good work? Most people do. So, why don’t more leaders use praise throughout the year? Could it be that we, as leaders of teams and...
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Helping Others To Laugh At Themselves: Be A Mirror
They’re Not Thinking About Others Two days ago, I spent some time at a local church; working with a couple of members to sort out clothes. These clothes had been donated by the church community for refugee families in Baltimore. I don’t enjoy sorting clothes, but I...
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9 Actions To Stand Out In A Job Interview
Interviewing can often feel so… unnatural. Figuring out what they might ask, and the best possible response, can be unnerving. You want the job, and they need to find the right person to fit the position. The stakes are high on both sides, and the interview is the...
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How to Give Your Very Best: Becoming Aware of Beliefs
Don't know what belief system is holding you back? How can you give your very best when you aren't sure what your beliefs are? When your results aren't quite up to par, and you don't know why, what can you do? The simple answer is to listen to yourself. What do you...
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Being a Beginner: 5 (Often Forgotten) Benefits
Running (Into) A Beginner’s Mindset A year ago, a friend asked me to fill in last minute. She had put together a relay team for the Baltimore marathon. One of her teammates had another obligation, and my friend wasn’t about to run two legs of the marathon herself....
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Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone: 10 Ideas (Through the Lens of An Enema)
Way Outside of My Comfort Zone “You want me to give myself an enema?” I asked my friend, Kristin, who had successfully dealt with the same discomfort I was experiencing. “Yes, it will help relieve the pain and discomfort you’re feeling. It’s also really good for your...
read more“You are a beautiful work of art.” She wrote it on a gum wrapper!
Being with difficult emotions can be challenging for all of us. We can feel like we're insufficient to handle the challenges and difficult emotions life presents. And yet, we have such incredible power to see and acknowledge other people, for their beauty and...
read moreInvest In Mindset: Advance Your Career
The mindset you need to advance your career At the end of July, my niece Ellei arrived here in Baltimore, Maryland to begin her two-week internship (with the director of neurology at Johns Hopkins University). Considering the immensely challenging life experiences...
read moreHow To Get The Job You Really Want
Do you know an awesome company, or a specific job you’d like to land, but you’re unsure how to get in the door? Maybe you know someone who works at the company, and they’ve even sent your resume to the hiring manager. But you still haven’t gotten an interview. What...
read moreOvercoming Difficulty: 5 Steps I Learned From My Cat (Of All Places)
Ever find yourself running in circles in your mind about some difficult thing that happened (or may happen)? There’s a script that can get going, replaying past situations, or future potentialities, over and over. It seems like our brains are wired this way, trying...
read more1 VERY Powerful Way I Overcame Adversity
How do you overcome adversity? Cultivating a mindset for success is a process that has more to do with letting simple successes energize you than taking giant steps into the unknown. In this motivational video, Misti Burmeister shares a powerful strategy for using...
read more7 Simple Steps To Landing The Opportunity You Really Want
You’ve had your eye on an awesome company. It’s known as a best place to work for its creative environment, industry leadership, advancement opportunity, pay or something else that is a priority for you. You begin to dream. There are a few jobs you know you can do,...
read moreThe Uses And Abuses Of The Law Of Reciprocity
Ever find yourself avoiding situations or people who do nice things for you? You want support, encouragement, valuable advice, or even a hug, but yet something inside of you knows that accepting it means you owe something. And so you avoid the people or experiences...
read moreA Simple Strategy To Strengthen Your Confidence
In an effort to avoid looking self-centered, unfocused or unproductive, it’s easy to fall into the trap of exhausting yourself by doing what you think you should do. Said simply, —Sharing time with people you love, —Learning, —Taking a vacation, —Spending time in...
read moreThe Truth About Freedom
How free are you to appreciate life, even as you wrestle with some of life’s great challenges, climb in your career, contribute to your potential and enjoy the people and experiences that present themselves every day? Throughout the month of July, gratitude ripples...
read moreFeeling Productive Comes From Getting Your Priorities Straight
Getting Productive! Your top 3 priorities need to come from you. But what does it mean to get your priorities straight? Have you ever found yourself continually frustrated at the end of every day, feeling a significant lack of progress? “If I can just get a few more...
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