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Mastering Assertiveness: How to Stand Your Ground Without Seeming “Bitchy”
In today's fast-paced world, navigating professional relationships can be a delicate balancing act, especially for women who often face the challenge of being assertive without being labeled as "bitchy." It's a common concern, and it's one that deserves careful...
Navigating Change: Lessons from One Leaders Journey Through Mergers and Acquisitions
Mergers and acquisitions are often fraught with challenges that can lead to miscommunication, fear, and a decline in productivity, creativity, and job security. If you have found yourself in the midst of rapid and unclear change within your organization, and unsure...
My Coming Out Story
June is National LGBTQ Pride Month. In recognition, I'd like to share a little bit about my own journey. “Mark your calendar,” my psychology 101 professor said on the first day of class in January 1997, “There will be a gay panel here on April 15th. Your attendance...
Stop Seeking, Start Noticing: Unveiling Your Everyday Learning Moments
Are you yearning for a deeper connection with your community, seeking inspiration from positive role models, and desiring a boost in self-assurance? Prepare to witness the extraordinary power concealed within everyday moments, ripe with the potential for profound...
Listening with Impact: Unveiling the Secrets of Persuasive Communication
In our fast-paced world, where everyone seems to have an opinion and a desire to be heard, truly influencing others can feel like an uphill battle. We often wonder why our attempts at persuasion fall short, go unnoticed, or worse, create strife in relationships. This...
Elevate Your Path: Proven Methods to Stand Out and Thrive in Your Career
In a world where the pursuit of success often overshadows the essence of fulfillment, one crucial element stands out - the power of authenticity and love in our work. As we navigate the realms of our careers, it's not merely about standing out; it's about standing...
Unveiling the Power of Intention: Reaching Your Hardest and Most Important Goals
Ever felt the intense frustration of chasing a meaningful goal, whether it's pouring your heart into passion projects, pushing yourself through workouts, or striving for a healthier lifestyle? We've all been there, battling that inner resistance. But what if I told...
Embracing Openness: The Power of Right Timing
Racing through a jam-packed day, I hopped on my bike for a doctor's appointment, squeezing it in before a whirlwind of activities. With my schedule tightly packed, any unforeseen delays could easily throw me off balance. Does this sound familiar? As luck (or lack...
9 Strategies to Reach for When You’re Thrust Into a Difficult Conversation…
From comedians to the media to business leaders and politicians, I have heard these words spoken what seems like a zillion times. “Our nation is divided.” How many times have you heard, seen evidence of, or thought the same thing? It’s literally everywhere, from the...
Beyond Words: The Unexpected Impact of Acknowledging Influence
A few days after posting this blog about the power of belief, I forwarded it to Gerry, the woman whose clear and crisp words about my talents changed my life. Since I had also recorded a video to demonstrate the power of our beliefs, I forwarded that to her as well....
The Power of Dispersing Attention: A New Perspective on Problem-solving
“If peace comes from seeing the whole, then misery stems from a loss of perspective.” — Mark Nepo Unexpected Challenges After a Successful Speech After delivering a speech in January, the response was overwhelming—I not only sold out of books but also surpassed...
From Self-Doubt to Self-Realization: A Personal Transformation Story
Five days before a big talk I was scheduled to deliver in Virginia, I reached out to my 80-year-old friend, Gerry, in search of some wisdom. As I poured out my worries about the upcoming event, Gerry patiently listened to my thoughts on the audience, topic, and venue...
What To Do When January Passes and You Haven’t Made Progress on Your Goals
As I sit here, thinking about the peeling back of the calendar, I feel antsy — like there’s something I need to do and quickly, to ensure that I get to the end of the year feeling accomplished. Fear is strong. Can you relate? Here’s what the fears sound like right now...
A Language of Love: Tapping into Divine Guidance
While listening to the podcast, "We Can Do Hard Things" recently, I had the pleasure of hearing Elizabeth Gilbert discuss her journey in communicating with the Divine. In the interview, she shared personal anecdotes about her conversations from twenty years ago and...
The Timing of Opportunity: When to Start Looking for a New Job and Expanding Your Horizons
As we approach the end of 2023, many of us find ourselves reflecting on the changes we want to make in the coming year. One common question that arises during this time is whether it's the right moment to explore new career opportunities. Allow me to share a story...
Embracing Self-Promotion: Unlocking Your Professional Growth
Are you missing out on incredible career opportunities because of your fear of self-promotion? That nagging voice inside our heads often tells us not to step forward, not to ask for what we deserve, and not to share our accomplishments. But it's time to silence that...
Breaking the Chains of Perfectionism: Nurturing Psychological Safety in the Workplace
Many of us struggle to speak up or step up when opportunity knocks. It can be difficult to try something new, share ideas, or take on greater responsibility. One reason for this is that we often don't feel safe. We are plagued by the "what if's," fearing that we will...
The Hidden Potential: Tapping into the Strengths of Millennial and Gen Z Employees
When I first started Inspirion nearly 20 years ago, my mission was to help young and seasoned professionals work effectively together. Back then, it was common to hear seasoned professionals dismiss the younger generation as "lazy, entitled, and unwilling to pay their...